There is a polarity in everything in life. happy and sad, rich and poor, fat and thin. It is the contrast and the differences between things that can really help us clarify what we want in life. When it comes to creating your life there is the having and the not having.
In order to create what you want in your life you need to focus on what you want, in other words the having. If you want money, you need to focus on money. If you want a relationship, focus on having the relationship of your dreams. If you want a fit and thin body, focus on being fit and thin.
The problem comes because we all have a tendency to focus on the not having that we are going through at the point of time. I assume that if you are trying to create something it is something that you dont have as yet. And what I am saying is that that is the problem. If you are focusing on the fact that you dont have it as yet then that is your point of attraction and that is what you are creating more of. If your mailbox is full of delinquent bills everyday it is difficult to focus on the money that you want. If you are overweight and the scales wont budge it is difficult to focus on being fit, thin and at...