The very first thing you must realize is that you will not die because of divorce. It has happened to millions of people before you and it will happen to millions of people after you.
Although divorce cause severe emotional pain, you must believe that you will get over it. Of course, it takes time, but you will eventually recover and find love again. It is very important that you understand this.
It is crucial to understand that the marriage is over. It is vital that you immediately let go of the other person and begin setting your own life in order.
You must not think about pain or dwell upon what was yesterday. The more you think about the past the worse it will hurt, and the longer it will take for you to recover.
You must think about yourself. You cannot allow yourself to just sit and waste away. You need to take hold of yourself and go on living.
In order to counter bad feelings, you must keep yourself busy – clean your house, wash your car, write out a budget, study or go to work. Keep yourself moving and working on the kinds of things that make you happy.
It is extremely important that you express the feelings of anger...