Ever run into a brick wall, so to speak, with your mate? Cant seem to pass Go without collecting 200 fresh wounds? Well, its time to build a bridge and tear down that brick wall. Here are your tools:
ATTITUDE Get an attitude adjustment first. Lighten up and do a 180-degree about face. Read the Sunday comics, grab an old comic book, turn on the Comedy channel, watch funny videos or DVDs. Get in a better mood and pass it along to your mate. Invite your mate to tune in to comedy with you, too.
FRIENDSHIP Go back to being friends for starters now that youre in a good mood. Forget the love stuff, if you want. And just focus on being good friends; share compliments, do things for one another, go out and have fun together, enjoy one anothers company.
RELAX Let your hair down. Trust and relax. Be yourself. Dont let old wounds open or fester. Forget the garbage memories and just be in the here and now together.
TIME OUT If possible, spend extra time together for awhile, like during your original courting days. Hire a sitter, order out, eat at fast food places, grab ice cream cones and go for walks in the park. Get to know each other all over again. Thats...