The Maid of Honor and the bridesmaids usually give the wedding shower. Often, with the help of the brides mother. There may be more than one shower, sometimes co-workers will give a shower at the workplace or in a restaurant close to the job. The grooms family if they live far away, my want to give a shower of their own. One word of caution, you shouldnt invite anyone to a shower who isnt invited to the wedding. Thats like saying Ill take your gift but dont want you at my wedding. Ask the bride who she wants at her shower.
If this is to be a surprise shower, get help from the brides mother. She will be able to tell you if Great Aunt Millie who lives several states away, will be insulted if she doesnt get an invitation even though everyone knows she cant come. Here are a few tips to help make it easier for you to manage.
Guest list – get names, addresses, phone numbers and email addresses of all who will be invited.
Budget Decide how much you can spend, this will determine where the shower will be held, what kind of food if any will be served, and even how you will decorate for the shower.
Invitations can be printed, store bought, done on your...