Loving Those Who Are Behave Egotistically Or Are Cold And Unfeeling
Why do we lose our love when others are behaving egotistically? What is the danger for us? We might answer that it is natural not to love an egotistical person. But what is our danger here? Are we losing self-worth,...
What Am I Going To Do With The Rest Of My Life?
Unexpected life changes. Anticipated transitions. Long, sleepless nights. What do these three things have in common? The ability to provoke one of the most haunting questions in the library of human introspectives:
“What on...
“Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.” –Dale Carnegie
When there’s no hope at all, most people think ‘this is the end. . . after all, no hope means theres no...
Communicating effectively can sometimes be difficult to do. So here are some thoughts, based on borrowed wisdom, on how to communicate clearly and make a better connection with the other person too.
To get your ideas across use small words, big ideas, and short sentences. ~ John Henry...
Keeping ones self going is a difficult thing to do. There are a million distractions that occur every day and that can mean that we do not stay on track with what we should be doing. Self-motivation is something that does not come easy to a lot of people and that means that there are some...
Personal Development is the buzzword of the new millennium. Self improvement has never been bigger business. It would seem that in an attempt to improve their prospects in the ever increasing pace of this new technological world we are having to focus more and more on bettering ourselves. People...
In business, like the rest of life we will often encounter people who are just that little more difficult to get along with. Some use the term personality conflict to describe the situation, yet this suggests that there is some sort of unbreakable barrier and that the problem is somewhat...
We Have to Talk: A Step-By-Step Checklist for Difficult Conversations
Think of a conversation youve been putting off. Got it? Great. Then lets go.
There are dozens of books on the topic of difficult, crucial, challenging, important (you get the idea) conversations (I list several...
Purpose for meditation:
What is the goal of meditation? The goal of meditation is not to end or remove the stimulation. It is more a training of the mind to direct focus and concentration to one element. This single element may be a single sound, a single word or thought, a single image...
In my experience as a counselor for 40 years, I have found that love addiction and approval addiction are far more prevalent than any other substance or process addictions. We live in a love-addicted, approval-addicted society.
What does it mean to be love/approval addicted? Below is a...
The Secrets of a ‘been-there, done-that’ Success Junkie and what it has to do with you and YOUR success
Dear Chronically Frustrated Entrepreneur,
If you’ve been going from guru to guru learning how to be the ‘next big thing’; If you’ve been...
I worked for many years in an office environment and would have enjoyed the experience if it was not for a number of over bearing and annoying colleagues. These people seemed to spend the whole day bitching and gossiping about other people which can make life at work very stressful and...