Romance. Can it be discussed? It has to be experienced, isn’t it? But, let us talk of romance, because we cannot avoid discussion about it. Let those in love, decide how correct is the below discussion on communication in romance. Romancing is not a science, but an art. When you talk to...
Marilee, a client of mine, was commitment phobic. Id love to be in a loving relationship, she told me in one of our counseling sessions, but Im not willing to give up my freedom. I have a great life. I love my work and my friends. I love to travel and take workshops and classes. I dont want...
Takers and caretakers they often seem to find each other! As a counselor who has worked with relationships for 37 years, I can tell you that this is the most frequent relationship dynamic that I encounter.
Takers are people who tend to be narcissistic that is, they are self-centered...
Spy software is not spyware industry advocates such as Tom Bilyeu, CMO of Awareness Technologies state. He adds that spy software is purposed to protect property and save family structure unlike spyware which is designed to do the opposite.
Spy ware, monitoring software and key logging...
So you’ve found a group of Christian roommates to move in with. You now have a potentially wonderful center of support at your home. However, it’s up to you and your new roommates to take advantage of living with fellow Christians. If you don’t actively pursue God together, it...
When you first began looking for solid Christian roommates to live with, it seemed that you would never find anyone. You may have felt like the only Christian in your new neighborhood. But eventually you will discover a new problem. You will have to chose from a handful of potential roommates....
In 1 Corinthians 15:33, Paul wrote: Do not be misled: Bad company corrupts good character. This statement should be your guiding light when selecting your next roommates.
In the same way that your family influenced you growing up, the people you live with now will also change the way you...
A child in a home is a gift from God. When a child born and enters into the religious environment of the family, he or she needs to be welcomed by the family members and the society. In Christian culture christening is the occasion when a newborn or a child enters into the religious world of the...
Cheating In Love – Should You Tell Your Partner Or Not?
Cheating is considered unpardonable. Everybody takes cheating by the partner very seriously. But most of us cheat at one or the other time -if not physically then emotionally. What if you cheated on your partner in a momentary...
Why are our relationships such a challenge?
By their very nature, relationships always push us toward duality, toward the opposites. They take us into both the light of our souls and the darkness of our subconscious. They force us to look at the light and experience the...
I have been counseling couples for 35 years. Quite often individuals come in for help wondering if it is really possible to save or improve their relationship. Perhaps their partner is totally uninterested in working on the relationship. Perhaps their partner is an alcoholic or drug addict. What...
When the mind allows guilt to take over, it will tear down relationships, especially if the partner fails to come to terms and agreement with self. To determine if your mind is full of guilt you must ask your self-questions. What did you do so wrong that would offend your partner that cannot be...