People have taken to online dating like a duck takes to waterbecause it worksor, at least, it can work. Women are, in general, terrified of meeting a man that she has been chatting with online. All they have heard about are the scary things that can happenand, I must say, they have a right to be careful to the extreme. Thats not only wise but vital. So whats a nice guy to do? You arent a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for the girl for you.
You must be patient. Dont press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Dont try to rush her into meeting face-to-face. She will think you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.
Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and there you are back at square one.
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