One of the biggest mistakes men make in their relationships with women is projecting into them their male thinking.
One of the masculine features they usually project into women is fairness.
When this mistake comes back to byte their asses they do not understand what happened, they cannot understand why their girls come back to them in such a self-centered, selfish way in response to their fairness.
Well there is a simple reason fro it:: fairness is – in fact – an invention of men.
Men have been providers to women and children along all the thousands of years of Evolution so they feel terribly guilty if everything is not “shared in a fair way.”
This is the responsibility you feel when you know you have the power.
Women are different: their job was for thousands of years to invent ways to have the men give them and their children part of the preys of their hunting, for the seek of their survival.
Being fair was easy to men: they had the power and access to food and resources.Being fair was much more difficult for women under such conditions and could have impaired their own survival and the survival of...