Jamie and Kurt are a sweet, successful couple in their early thirties. In spite of loving each other deeply, they often find themselves in conflict over seemingly minor issues, as most couples do. Recently, just one week before their wedding anniversary, they had a particularly hurtful argument. Jamie had expressed her unhappiness about Kurts busy schedule and the limited time he finds to spend with her. As usual, Kurt promised to try harder and they got through it. But having not dealt with the real issues at hand, the problem was bound to resurface. Jamie unknowingly began planting the seeds for their next bout when she decided to bring up the subject of their anniversary.
Kurt, I just wanted to remind you that next week is our anniversary and its really important that we plan something special for us.
Kurt took a deep breath and responded, Jamie, you know I dont really like celebrations.
Oh come on Kurt. Its really important to me. Nearly pleading, Jamie continued. When you really love someone, you try to do what is important to them, right? I made the plans last year and now its your turn. Why dont you surprise mesomething really romantic!...