You can be confident! All you have to do is rid yourself of confidence killers. Confidence killers are self-defeating thought patterns. Many of us walk through life with these harmful assumptions.
See if youve got any of these evildoers in your thoughts:
1. The All or Nothing Sniper:
This way of thinking is the reason you cant seem to enjoy even the small wins youve been getting in life. Ill bet you were the kid in school who went home crying when you got one wrong on a test!
You think you are a complete failure when your performance (whatever it is) is not perfect. Youd be confident if you didnt spend so much energy being so hard on yourself!
2. The Dark Cloud of Destruction:
Look out! There is a disaster hiding behind every corner. Expect it. The Dark Cloud of Destruction makes you think silly things like: I failed my chemistry test; there is no point in even thinking about college, now.
3. Warlord of Negative Magnification:
If you listen to this confidence killer youll never be confident. Hes got a warped idea that if its good- it doesnt really count. Hell take any little negative anthill and magnify it like its a...