By dropping judgment we allow love.
In fact, when we drop a lot of things, we allow love.
Dropping all the stresses and ‘have toos’ allows the mind to relax. It lets the body yield and leaves room for the soul to manouvour into situations where it can grow.
When we drop judgments we become more clear on who we are and what we are really doing. Let me give you an example:
When a parent tells a child off, one of the judgments a parent has is that, if I don’t tell them off they’re always going to do that naughty thing. Yet often when a child does that naughty thing all they have is an unfulfilled need at that moment – and usually it’s connection to love.
Whenever I successfully manage not to avoid judging my kids behaviour love flows. Recently my daughter stuck her tongue out at me when I asked her to do something – bless her. I walked away, admiring her strong spirit and hiding a smile. Later I asked her if I could stick my tongue out at her. She nodded. She then told me she didn’t like it very much.
We agreed, just for a moment – in the name of fun – we’d both give each...