I was boggled as to what exactly I wanted to share with my article lovers tonight. I had a plan, then one of my members commented in my self esteem website. Well, in short, my mind would not let her comment rest. It was a sentence regarding, “CONTROL”. Here it is:
“If I cant trust my spouse to keep their sexual promise to me why am I in this relationship? I don’t ever want to “control” another person’s life. I choose to believe in the promise until prove otherwise. Positive attracts positive.”
My first thought was,”WOW”! Does one really feel that they are controlling their mate?
How does wanting them to just be with you, become a control factor?
How does your wanting to be just the one, become a control factor?
How does not wanting them to look, or talk personally to another person, become a control factor?
How does making them feel like you are suppose to be the only thing on their minds, become a control factor?
How does checking their phone logs, or their computer logs, become a control factor?
Is wondering what they are doing at every minute, a control...