Many people are able to get into relationships. And many are able to attract partners who are suitable for them, physically and mentally. But for many people, their relationships do not last much more than 3 months! This is a shocking truth of the dating world. Why does this happen? Why cant we make it last? Ill give you three reasons:
*1. Treating a Relationship as a Transaction
You cannot be calculative when it comes to love. Counting who did what for whom leads to the death of generosity. Theoretically speaking, theres a hidden universal law guiding human relations, which is, If you stop giving, you stop getting. And if thats the way the law is, them we must not stop giving or else the relationship will die. So if you are calculative, you will count to a point where you will say, Yep, thats enough. Ive given my fair share. Now its your turn. But your partner may not feel its their turn yet. So dont calculate. Keep giving generously and you partner will return your love when the time is right.
*2. Not Being Patient or Sensitive Enough
Relationships are delicate because human emotions are delicate. You can bring the strongest relationship to its...