When was the last time you asked yourself that question? Do I really like me? What is it about me that I like?
Most people spend their lives speculating whether other people like them: Does.like me? Am I attractive to ? What have I done to upset
The upshot is you spend a considerable part of your life trying to please others. Trying not to offend others. Trying to keep the peace. No matter what.
Although you may well be successful using this method, the result is you spend most of your time doing what you think others would like. You are rarely effective.
Just think for a moment:
How much of my day is spent trying to please others?
How much time do I spend thinking I mustnt say that?
Rather than try to make others fall in love with you how about falling in love with yourself. I dont mean that in a vain, egotistical, self absorbed way where youre always looking in the mirror and telling others how good you are. But, do you like being with yourself? Do you like the person in your body? If you met you on the street would you stop and talk to you. If you were in need of help would you stop and help you or would you quickly cross the...