Getting close to landing your first kiss? Are you overwhelmed with stress? If the answer is yes, then you must read this article. It will slash your anxiety in half.
1) Eliminate Expectations
Don’t expect to set the world on fire with your first kiss. Instead, decide that you just want to give a normal 10 second kiss. Shooting for a realistic goal will lower your stress considerably.
2) Remember that you’ll get a 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th + chance. Once that initial kiss is made, you guys will do it a hundred more times. You’ll be so relieved and thrilled to be kissing, that you’ll want to do it all the time. So, if you screw up a little on your first kiss, don’t sweat it. You’ll get another chance to do it better…probably within the hour.
3) It’s probably their first kiss, too
Don’t expect to be judged on your performance. If they haven’t kissed anyone before, either, you can be damn sure that they’re also stressing about it. In fact, after you guys pull apart from your first kiss, it’s likely they’ll be so busy wondering “Am I doing this right”, that they...