There are a few good rules to remember when you are ready to take the next step with someone you met online, and ask them on a real date. The first rule is the same in cyber space as it is in the real world: Before you ask for a date, dont be afraid of rejection. Getting turned down can be a bummer, but dont stress. Remind yourself that just because one person says no doesnt mean that everyone will, so dont give up hope. Everyone has to experience rejection to appreciate it when they do get a date.
Another rule: Never request a first date for a Friday or a Saturday night, because those nights are too big and important for a first date. Begin with a more run-of-the-mill kind of day, such as a Tuesday or a Thursday, which is a day when most people dont tend to plan a lot of activities. Making the first date a non-weekend event will take some of the pressure off, as it will make it a more low-key event. Try going out to lunch first instead of dinner. An evening date can often end with an awkward doorstep scene that could be avoided with a more casual meeting.
Heres another good rule of thumb: Always offer a potential date options about what to do for your first...