Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You cant successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility I.E. Before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you MUST first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal of actual seduction. And that right there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? If the girls not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?
Often men just go for it and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. Other men decide they dont want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not...