I met my fianc on a dating site. Since that time, lots of my single friends think Im the online dating expert. What surprises me about that is that most of these women were around for the years prior to meeting my Mr. Perfect when I met a pathological liar on Eharmony, a man Im pretty sure was a serial killer on Match, and at least a half dozen married men.
Now looking back on my experience and watching those experiences of my friends in the online dating world, what I observe most often is a silent desperation in women that makes the whole process incredibly heavy and serious. We are looking for Mr. Right and have a great deal of hope that every next guy is him. If we go out on three or four dates we giggle to our friends about our new boyfriend and secretly start practicing our signature with his last name, (you know youve done it). No matter how many times we get burned, hope in the online dating world springs eternal and sometimes leads to delusion.
So, here it is, my online dating strategy that finally scored me my Mr. Perfect. I have shared this with many women that look at me crossed eyed. But Im here to tell you this one works if you are strong...