It is my firm belief that if you are seeking a life partner, you need to be clear about what it is you are looking forwhat is important to you.
If youve had more than a few failed relationships, then thats actually a good thing because it will help you narrow your focus. You probably will develop a list of what you dont want and from that list, you can turn the “dont wants” into qualities and characteristics that you do want.
My 21 year-old son is currently finding himself yearning for a significant relationship but he keeps attracting girls into his life who have a lot of insecurities and low self-esteem. When I asked him what he was looking for, the only quality he was concerned with was body size, shape and attractiveness. He really hadnt considered the other attributes that attracted him. Consequently, he has been attracting many beautiful young women into his life, but no one has had the staying power because he is not clear about what he wants.
I suggested he make a list and put it out there to the Universe and then trust that the Universe will deliver the right person at precisely the right time. I suggest you be flexible in your list but...