How To NOT Reach Your Goal And Be Happy At The Same Time!
Recently, I have someone asking me the following question:
Im a happy person, but I want to achieve a lot of things like confidence in being around with people etc. If I try to achieve these other things like confidence, it will affect the happiness Im trying to achieve. How can I involve these things into my goals and yet be happy at the same time?
It took me a while to understand his question. (Note: Ive tried to rephrase his question to make it easier for you to understand). Finally, I realize that he has a conflict between goal setting and happiness.
Then I found out that many people are having similar difficulties as well. On one hand, they are trying to keep themselves happy, one the other hand, they are trying to achieving more things. But when they fail to achieve their goals, they become unhappy.
This has inspired me to write this article.
The problem experienced by the person with this problem is his goal is adding pressure on him, such that it makes him unhappy. Thats because he has defined his happiness as his goal! If he does that, he will NEVER be happy because goal...