How To Save Your Marriage What The Experts Are Forgetting To Tell You
How to save your marriage: its the topic of dozens if not hundreds of self-help books, yet divorce seems to be as popular as ever? Its not necessarily because the advice in those books is bunk, either. Usually its because, no matter how much good advice you get, there are some things about your approach to your marriage that need to change before you can even take advantage of those tips.
Rule out divorce!
If youve been talking about divorce, but neither of you really want it, banish all talk of it from your conversations. Its not an option, so why are you even mentioning it? Some people tend to use the d-word as a threat, even though they never plan to carry through. The problem with that is the more often you bring up the subject, the more likely it is to become a reality.
Remember respect!
Can you remember your first few dates, when you hardly knew each other and were nervous just to be around each other? You said please and thank you and if any disagreements came up you patiently and politely resolved them? You dont have to fall in love all over again (at least, not...