Here’s how to say “no” with class and respect.
> Be Courageous
Some people feel afraid to say “no.” They may either expect a hostile reaction or they want to be helpful. As a result, they end up inconveniencing both themselves and other people.
Recognize that it is okay to say “no.” In fact, most people would rather receive a solid “NO” than an insincere “yes.”
> Decline Early
You will save time, energy, and stress by declining offers as soon as you realize that you do not want them. Unanswered questions follow us like hungry orphans, crying for our attention. And our stress increases as their numbers grow. Rescue yourself from this dilemma by making choices. Of course, agree if that is what you want. Otherwise, decline. This frees you to move on with other choices and it frees your mind to consider other possibilities.
> Take an Active Role
Some people attempt to say “no” by ignoring the other person. While this may be an acceptable way to deal with junk mail and cold calls, it is a terrible strategy where you know the other person. This includes...