Ever had a friend whose best idea for how to win an ex boyfriend back was to show up at his house with a casserole and a list of apologies? Remember how embarrassed you were for her? So, now youre in the same position and know exactly how she felt, but just because you can sympathize with her doesnt mean you have to act like her. If youre hoping to get your guy back without losing your self-respect, heres what you can do.
Learn how men think!
The main reason so many of us are willing to do over-the-top things when trying to figure out how to win an ex boyfriend back is because those things work on us. Think about it: gifts, lover letters, persistent phone callseven if those tactics are annoying, when they come from a man you once loved, they do get to you, dont they?
Men, on the other hand, just dont work that way. It may sound harsh, but your guy isnt going to shed tears of remorse over your heart-felt love letter. In order to avoid doing something thats going to make you look like some crazy stalker chick, spend some time learning how to communicate in a calm, logical style your guy can relate to.
Accentuate the positive!
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