How Tos For Choosing The Best Man And Matron Of Honor
The trick with having a wedding party is that eventually youre going to have to choose someone to be the best something. Women have it slightly easier because they can opt to have a Matron of Honor as well as a Maid of Honor, but even so, its a difficult decision to make.
Any tips?
Ladies first
Many women feel the pressure of having to choose their bestest friend for the honor of being Matron or Maid in their wedding. They feel like they are leaving one of their friends out or hurting their feelings. First of all, realize that the duty of being in the wedding party is enormous. The Matron of Honor has a lot to do before and during the wedding itself, so you will want to choose someone that you think can handle it.
If youre the bride, you may feel that you have to choose a family member as well, but thats not necessary. You might include them as a part of the party, but if you have a really close friend that you want to bestow the honor upon, then do so.
Find someone who isnt overly busy or committed. If they live in the town that youll be married in, thats great too. Even if youre...