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A Winning Attitude: Empower Your Dreams By Using Affirmations
A winning attitude often takes work to develop. An important part of this work involves forming positive statements about yourself to replace old, negative, self-defeating thoughts. As a baby, you happily went about doing whatever babies do – touching, tasting, exploring, and learning. You were without thoughts about what you could or couldnt do, so you tried many things. Very soon, an adult undoubtedly intervened, giving you messages like Good boy! What a bright girl! No, no – that is bad. We accepted these statements unquestioningly.
Over time, as we hear such statements repeatedly, we develop beliefs about ourselves, and begin to organize them into a belief system. Various experiences reinforce them and we begin to adapt our behavior to conform to them. If you were repeatedly praised as a bright child, you began to believe you were a bright child. Your young mind worked overtime, coming up with new ways to show how bright you were, and to elicit further praise.
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