The narcissist lacks empathy. Consequently, he is not really interested in the lives, emotions, needs, preferences, and hopes of people around him. Even his nearest and dearest are, to him, mere instruments of gratification. They require his undivided attention only when they “malfunction” – when they become disobedient, independent, or critical. He loses all interest in them if they cannot be “fixed” (for instance, when they are terminally ill or develop a modicum of personal autonomy and independence).
Once he gives up on his erstwhile sources of supply, the narcissist proceeds to promptly and peremptorily devalue and discard them. This is often done by simply ignoring them – a facade of indifference that is known as the “silent treatment” and is, at heart, hostile and aggressive. Indifference is, therefore, a form of devaluation. People find the narcissist “cold”, “inhuman”, “heartless”, “clueless”, “robotic or machine-like”.
Early on in life, the narcissist learns to disguise his socially-unacceptable indifference as benevolence, equanimity,...
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