Infidelity is a funny little thing that come and bite you in the bum when you least expect it. Affairs might be fun at the time but infidelity isn’t worth destroying your marriage for.
I often liken affairs to an addiction whereby however much you tell yourself you shouldnt be doing something you feel compelled to do the opposite. And of course, while its sitting there for you on a plate who are you to say no. However, infidelity is like any other addiction, there comes a time when you realise that this isnt what life is all about and decide to let go. Unfortunately, all too often the realisation comes too late!! Just remember, if you want to play such a dangerous game as adultery someone is always going to get hurt.
I personally believe that you shouldnt sleep with someone while you are sleeping in the marital bed. Infidelity can be really cruel on the cheated partner, have you ever thought how you would feel if you knew your partner was behaving the same as you?
Some people do have open relationships and it does work but ground rule number one has to be that your partner is aware and is happy with the situation.
If you are the one commiting...