If you are like most people, then you too have this strange tendency to wait for others to fill in your needs. This pattern of waiting for others is a bad habit, causing a lot of pain and stress in your relationships. It can even be fatal and needlessly ruin a relationship!
Reason enough to take a closer look at this habit and learn how to handle it.
At the start of a new relationship, you get everything you have been longing for, sometimes since early childhood: love, affection, tenderness, attention, excitement and energy.
You think youve finally found your Prince Charming (or Princess Charming) and all your needs are fulfilled forever, They lived long and happily ever after. You wallow in the illusion that this new excitement will last forever, and that you dont have to do anything in order to keep receiving this stream of love and energy from your significant other.
Reality turns out differently. Not that after a while your lover loves you less, but that a big share of his attention and energy goes to his job, friends and activities he used to have before meeting you.
You panic. Whats going on? Does he not love you anymore? Did you become...