Life is impossible without difficulties. The moment we are born to this world, life gives us trials every day. Some of us overcome their ups and downs without sticking on them. Others tend to experience difficulties more often, in their lives run of bad luck lasts for a rather long time. It would be logical to ask why? Who divides people into successful and unsuccessful? Probably they do it themselves. The people take negative life circumstances quite differently. Losers regard them as defeats, whereas winners perceive them as some valuable life lesson to enrich their life experience. The main rule of winners is the thesis: there are no defeats, but there is a feedback. Such life approach allows them to acquire severe life lessons more easily and advance to their aim.
If a new dissatisfying situation arises, people act differently depending on their common behaviour strategy. Lets see how people of these two categories react to difficulties. The losers strategy. Something is wrong again When he does not attain the desirable result the loser experiences strong emotional discomfort that prevents him to evaluate the situation objectively. He transforms this negative...