We are all just human. Each of us has our own set of character flaws or character defects. There are many people that wear masks, if you will, and they wear different ones for different people. There seems to be this mystification of projecting the right image to prospects in the dating world. Lets be honest, do you really want to attract a member of the opposite sex (or whatever your sexual preference might be) by projecting a fantasy that Don Juan couldnt live up to? You cant keep it up forever, and even if you could, its not real!
This applies to many smokers out there as well; especially those that are involved in the dating scene. Smoking seems to be one of those red flags or character flaws we would just as soon not publicize to our field of potential significant partners, at least in the beginning. So many of us feel as though we are being forced to be dishonest about our smoking just to be considered as a possibility in the eyes of that perfect match. The question here is; do you want to misrepresent whom you are and what you do just to get a date?
Many people might answer this question with a resounding yes; I want to project a fantasy that will attract...