When you have moved into a deep relationship with somebody, a great need arises to be alone. You start feeling spent, exhausted and tired – joyously tired, happily tired – but each excitement is exhausting. It was tremendously beautiful to relate, but now you would like to move into aloneness, so that you can again gather yourself together, so that again you can overflow with love, so that again you become rooted in your own being.
In love, you moved into the other’s being and lost contact with yourself. You drowned, you were drunk. Now you will need to find yourself again. But when you are alone, you are again creating a need for love. Soon you will be so full that you would like to share, you will be so overflowing that you would like somebody to pour yourself into.
Love arises out of aloneness. Aloneness makes you overfull. Love receives your gifts. Love empties you so that you can become full again. Whenever you are emptied by love, aloneness is there to nourish you, to integrate you. And this is a rhythm.
I am bringing you a new message. Remain choicelessly alert in your life, and become intelligent rather than changing circumstances....