“Use every man after his desert, and who shall ‘scape whipping? Use them after your own honour and dignity: the less they deserve, the more merit is in your bounty.” Hamlet, William Shakespeare
When was the last time someone made your day or you made theirs? In the national bestselling book, FISH!, by Stephen C. Lundin Ph.D., Harry Paul, and John Christensen, the fishmongers at the world famous Pike Place Fish Company in Seattle do it daily. They do it by throwing fish and joking with their loyal customer-fans, and by just having fun.
I made a point recently to look for people I could “treat” this way, and it was really fun. I think I felt better than they did. I realized that when you make someones day, it bounces back on you. It’s a great feeling to witness the joy and surprise on their faces.
It can be little things, like:
Smiling
Saying Good morning
Offering your place in line to a harried fellow shopper
Bringing a cup of coffee to your office mate
Doing a task for a coworker
Over-tipping at your favorite restaurant
Taking time with someone who needs it
Being...