Everyone has heard the old adage that marriage is all about compromise. That should not always be the case, though! Every issue should not be about compromise or your marriage will seem like a constant business negotiation, and someone will always feel slightly cheated. This can lead to resentment and bitterness. While many issues in marriage do require a great deal of compromise, sometimes you should just give in. In other words, pick your battles wisely.
Each spouse in a marriage should not be giving 50% all of the time. That is only half of what you have to give. You should be giving your all, 100%, all of the time. Then, you both will be giving your marriage all of your commitment and effort. While meeting halfway in the name of compromise is important, you should be willing to give in at times as well, for the sake of your spouses happiness.
Romance isnt really romance when its only convenient for you or your partner. Romantic holidays or occasions such as St. Valentines Day or birthdays are only truly romantic if you go think of them the rest of the year. That doesnt mean spending a lot of money, either. Offer to stop on the way home to pick...