Many couples, after all the years of trying to make it work, eventually find themselves at the end of the line. The marriage counseling and other therapies failed to make the marriage work. At some point, one or both persons in the marriage decide to cut all strings that connected them as husband and wife.
While separation or divorce may be the only way to secure freedom from an unhappy marriage, the effects of dissolving a partnership that was supposed to last for eternity go beyond the bickering parties. Surely, when a marriage fails, the hurts and pains also hit even those who are not supposed to be involved — the children. Your children may do away with less toys to play with. They can also learn to live in a simple house and eat simple food. Even if they enviously talk about their peers’ palatial homes in the suburbs , they would rather live in a hole — as long as you are there. Sadly, the children often become part of collateral damage when a war breaks out between husband and wife. In the heat of marital fights, it is often forgotten that children are can also get hurt.
No child can easily get over the fact that the very epitome of unity...