OK, so that title sounds like a pipe dream for a lot of parents. You’re probably busy taking care of your children all day, and if they’re too small for school you don’t get that break. But there are still ways to get some quiet time.
One way is to have your spouse take the kids for a day. If your spouse works outside the home while you stay home with the kids, that doesn’t mean you deserve a seven day workweek every week. Come to an agreement about when you can have time for yourself. The amount and frequency will of necessity depend on the hours your spouse works. If your spouse or significant other is working two jobs to keep you home with the kids, you can’t expect him to give up his one day off too often so you can go relax. Keep it fair to both of you.
If that simply cannot work for you, no matter the reason, try making arrangements with a friend. Trade babysitting in the middle of the day if you’re both at home. The kids will get to play with each other, and you’ll get a break without spending money on a sitter. Make sure you do the same for your friend. You may also be able to make arrangements with family...