Contrary to most conventional wisdom, its not your looks, your money, your job or even your luck, that’s going to land you that great relationship, and keep it sizzling. No, the secret is all in your attitude.
Here are my Six Essential Secrets For “Flowing” Relationships
1. Stop competing with each other! Good relationships are all about being on the same side. What’s the purpose in scoring all those points? Sure you may cross the finish line first today, and maybe tomorrow as well. But you’ll be all alone when you do, and if you carry on this way, eventually you may not have anyone left in your life to compete with! So stop competing; stop player-hating; start concentrating on crossing that finish line as part of a winning team.
2. Listen, communicate and hear! One of my favorite parts of my great relationship period, is to sit and chat with my wife. We talk about big stuff, and small stuff; share plans and pains, and each of us engages with what the other is saying. We never use silence as a weapon, and we never go to bed mad. Master the simple art of real conversation, and your relationship is halfway home!
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