When do we start taking responsibility for our own actions? It appears that we no longer own our actions. Owning our actions involves taking personal responsibility for what we do. Why is it that when something goes wrong, we need some place else to lay the blame? Part of being a mature, responsible adult is knowing that when we make a decision in life, we are responsible for the outcome, not someone else.
Lets look at the following examples:
A married man goes out and has an affair. He blames the wife for not satisfying his needs in bed. Did he ever stop to think that maybe his problem lies with him and not with his wife?
Your electricity gets turned off because you didnt pay the bill. Do you blame the mail man for not bringing the bill? Do you blame the electrical company, because you didnt receive the bill? You knew the bill was due. You pay it every month, dont you? It comes down to responsibility.
You join a website and the administrator bans you for breaking the terms of service. You blame the administrator? Why? You knew the rules of the website upon joining and had you not known the rules, you should have prepared yourself better by reading...