“Hey, can you do me a favor?” Do you hear it all of the time? Everyone thinks that stay-at-home moms are loaded with spare time and energy. All I’m doing is swimming knee-deep in laundry, dishes, physical therapy equipment, special diet needs, and doctor and specialist appointments. I have all the time in the world for everyone else, right? Wrong!
No wonder busy men and women today are so stressed – we’re afraid to say NO.” A two-letter word which most moms have no problem saying to their kids and their spouses – how come it’s so hard to say to those who live outside of the front door? No is a very powerful and freeing word.
Friends will often assume you have increased availability given that you are a stay-at-home mom. If friends who work at offices ask for repeat favors, like watching their children in a pinch or waiting for a repairperson, find polite ways to say no. Let friends know about your work, to avoid drop-in visits or phone calls from which you find it difficult to extricate yourself.
How many unwanted things have you ended up doing because you didnt say no? Most of the time we say yes because we...