Learning about your spouses affair is one of the most life changing events youll ever have to cope with. The initial mental and physical pain can be more than most people feel they can bear.
Debbie found that the shock left her feeling completely suicidal, in such an emotional state that she just couldnt see an end to the raging emotions of sheer loathing, humiliation, defeat and despair. She couldnt visualize surviving the infidelity.
“After weeks of trying to come to terms with the shock of my husband confessing to having an affair, I tried to face up to the news and move on with my life but I just couldnt get over the feelings of hate, shock, rage, fear and utter betrayal.
I really hated my husband, the other woman and myself for what had become of our marriage. I found myself wanting to kill him one minute and trying to understand why he had done it the next. I didnt know what to do or where to turn. I had no idea as to whether I wanted to save my marriage or not but I was totally unprepared for life on my own.
I felt so alone, half dead, totally humiliated, defeated and betrayed and found I just couldnt move on without seeking help and...