At Christmas time, many people are deciding on what gift to give that special someone. Whether it is a spouse, child, girlfriend boyfriend or just someone whos been there for you, it can be hard to decide.
Of all the gifts that I have given over the years, two have stood out for people. This can be for any occasion throughout the year.
One of them is to write down or type what you see in the other person.
-> Why they make a difference in your life.
-> Why they make a difference in other peoples lives.
-> The talents and gifts that they have.
-> The potential that you see in them.
-> What you appreciate about them and why.
I would then put this on special paper that reflected their personality. You can them either place it in an envelop or even frame it for them to hang on the wall as a reminder when they are feeling down. I have even included a ribbon that said, Who You Are Makes A Difference.
The second gift is the gift of listening. Often we half listen, because we have several things on our mind or believe we know what they are going to say. And people know it. They often feel that you dont consider either them or...