Each week Burrel Lee Wilks III writes a column in his free weekly newsletter–The Burrel Report–answering questions readers send in, and giving other readers a chance to share their point of view too. Over the next few weeks Burrel has agreed to share his advice with you. Keep an eye open for Burrel and his unique style of “life coaching without sugarcoating” and don’t be afraid to weigh in on the discussion.
Question of the week: “I ‘stalk’ my wife…”
Q: Derrick L. Mansfield asks: “Why don’t I trust my wife? Every time she leaves home, I feel like I have to trail her. I’ve even skipped work a day or two so’s I can keep an eye on here without her knowing. I know it’s irrational but I just can’t help myself. She thinks we have the perfect relationship…”
A: Burrel says: “First off, who are you fooling Derrick? She doesn’t think you have the perfect relationship. Why do guys always underestimate their women. I don’t know what triggered this insecurity you have, but I’ll keep it real Derrick, you need some help man. Look at you, like...