Divorced dads sometimes dread the act of visitation because of the abrupt time that they spend with their children. These times are very limited, and for a father, even a whole day is not enough to spend with your own kid. This is different than living in one house and having all the time in the world playing or talking to ones children, a lot different than a divorced dad, it is much like calling your dentist for an appointment. This may not be easy for other dads out there, so here are some tips on how to ease the tension when visiting.
Take it one step at a time
Do not rush to your kids all at once. Things may be awkward at first, but eventually all these awkwardness fades away. Just give yourself time to gel with the kids. Patience plays a big factor with this one.
Plan your day
What you can do is plan ahead of time before your visit. Consider this as your weekend with the kids. You can take them hiking or camping, or any outdoor events that all of you could enjoy. Teach your kids to fish or go birdwatching. Remember, this is your time to bond with them.
Be spontaneous
Some kids may have planned their day with their dad ahead also,...