Do you find it easy to make conversation with new people youve just met? Or does the thought of trying to make conversation with someone new make you break out in a cold sweat?
If you dont feel comfortable making casual conversation with new people you have just met, you will find it harder to make new friends. You will also find it more difficult to fit in at your work place.
One of the most common reasons that people have difficulty making conversation with someone they dont know very well is because they put too much pressure on themselves.
They think they have to really put up a great performance to impress the other person. They dont just let themselves just be ordinary, and talk about fairly ordinary things.
Heres a very important lesson to learn about making conversation with people: When you insisting to yourself that you have to be brilliant and dazzling in all your conversations this belief will not win you new friends. It will not even improve your conversational performance.
When you think to yourself that you have to perform perfectly in all your conversations, you will actually make your performance worse! You will...