There are major, significant differences between men and women. Women and men are looking for different things in a relationship because they have different personalities. It is still a mystery for men what a woman really wants in a relationship, what she needs to be happy.
Women have an idealistic view of the relationship and that is why they want the man to change. Changes occur every day but rarely do they affect anyone. Therefore, men refuse to do this, they usually have the concept that if their woman loves them, they have to accept them as they are. If not, they had better change their girlfriends.
People in relationships often have strong expectations that their partner will be exactly what they want. You will see that if you meet a girl and you will have a long relationship with her, after a while she will try to change you. When you met her, she was perfect in every sense of the word. However, after a while, she will try to make you to be like the person from her fantasy.
People which try to change other people in a relationship initially try to make the person out to be something they were not and try to mold them in the perfect mate....